Sunday, July 26, 2009

Mother's Challenge 做妈妈必须面对的挑战

After sharing about what my mom's had done assisted in previous post, is time to see what challenge faced by Hui Kit's mom!
之前看了我妈妈辛苦的生活后,现在让我们看看辉杰妈妈的挑战了。

If you wish to become a mother one day, it's good for your to prepare mentally and physically.
若你也想要当妈妈,请要做好心理及生理上的准备哦~

挑战 1 -我猜我猜我猜猜猜。。。

每一个孩子个都有不一样的表情,
每一个表情都带有不一样的用意;
成长过程会出现越来越多的表情,
越来越多的表情代表着我的成长。

每一天都在进行着:
你哭你笑,
我猜我想,
我抱我疼,
你需你要,
的游戏。。。。。

痛苦程度 - 3/10

挑战 2 - 婴儿vs健康奶。

在妈妈生病打针吃药时,
不适合喂人奶,
怕因此而‘输入’不良营养。
所以只能眼睁睁及无奈,
看着疼爱的孩子吸取,
对自己不健康的饮料。
(牛奶是给小牛喝的)
或许这也可以让自己变成
不会生病超人的推动力。

痛苦程度 - 3/10

挑战 3 -涨奶的痛苦

你曾听过所谓的‘涨奶’?
该有吧~
但你或许不真正了解其状况。。。

当你摸着肿涨涨的乳房时,
你会惊讶、紧张,
然后明白,
为什么别人说涨奶时很痛苦。

摸着爆满的乳房,
仿佛像是摸着一块石头,
别怀疑,
就是那么的硬。

痛苦程度 - 4/10

挑战 4 - ‘风水’不沾

做月时:
不能吹风,
不管外边的风还是冷气风,
不能冲凉,
不管你感到闷热还是清凉,
不能洗头,
不管你想洗的是发还是头。

痛苦程度 - 5/10

挑战 5 - 饮食法则

月内不能喝水吃冰,
也不能吃属于寒冷的食物、水果。
必须以吃姜、喝酒为主,
吃多喝多后,
感觉像是变成了‘姜神酒鬼’。

痛苦程度 - 5/10

挑战 6 - 时间方恨少

根本没有看时间的时间了,
孩子,都是为了你

没有了多余的时间,
就没有了空间,
去完成自己的功课;

赔了自由,
又失去许多与家人共享欢乐的时光,
感觉上也渐渐失去了自己。

痛苦程度 - 6/10

挑战 7 - 肉痛心痛

谁能理解,
身体承受着‘皮肉开花’的痛苦,
自己却又无法逃避逃脱;

奶头被孩子吸至脱皮、伤痕累累,
又得咬紧牙根继续喂,
好比如在伤口上撒盐,
疼痛无比。

痛苦程度 - 7/10

挑战 8 - 喂奶马拉松

孩子吸奶,
不分昼夜,
要喝就喝,
要停就停。

一开始喝就得看他的脸色了。
心情好,喝喝一下就满足了;
心情差,可以吸着乳头,
‘爱不释口’的当玩具般吸上四五个小时;
别以为抱抱走走可以哄骗到他,
他可比谁都聪明,
就只选择‘货真价实’的奶头!

痛苦程度 - 8/10

挑战 9 - 心理修炼

还来不及安慰自己的伤心,失落的心情,
孩子就哭着要这要那了!

自己的压力,
只有自己来承受,
孩子的需要,
也得需要妈妈的成全及满足。
心理上的不平衡导致产后忧郁症,
可以比想象更容易发生。

痛苦程度 - 9/10

挑战 10 - 熟睡?慢慢等~

普遍上的小孩‘喜欢’睡觉,
一些却‘喜欢’精神奕奕面对人生。
我的小孩‘幸运’的属于后者,
一天只需要区区四五个小时的‘小休’就心满意足了,
可怜的当然是妈妈咯,
妈妈每天都要处理自己的日常生活事务,
除了累,就是疲倦。

深深感受到,
‘世上只有妈妈好’的荣誉,
来的名副其实!

痛苦程度 - 9.5/10 (太辛苦了!!)

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你,准备好了吗?
Are you ready?


p/s: protoss, kindly ask your gf to translate for you, I cant really express using my noob English. @@"


With Love 因为爱,
elims Chuang 光宏

20 comments:

CH Voon said...

yalor... not easy become a parent...

so what big gift you plan to buy for your wife :P

CH Voon said...

i am not sure what the meaning you put the last photos ... the maxis phone?

You not sleep until 4am hehehehe??

if yes, i think 3rd month your baby will tune his sleeping time

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

er... good to think of that also, any idea what can we provide?

Hopefully my baby will follow your daughter footstep! haha~ ^_^

~dolly~ said...

真的很辛苦,很辛苦。。 小玲实在太太太太太勇敢了~从怀孕到生下来。我的天啊~好辛苦。

我自认我还没到那个程度,=.=”

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

没试过,还不知道~ 但放心啦,肯定可以度过的,毕竟世上也产生了那么多妈妈...

真的辛苦世上的妈妈了...

Zhai Lun said...

totally agree. :) But eventually everything will get better. hehe. Keep breastfeeding as long as you can, don't give up. The "PureLan 100" by Medela is very very effective for nipple crack. :)

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

Thanks zhai lun for your kind advice, you are right, now maybe it cure already or maybe already 麻木, not much pain like before. =) (We got one from other brand de previously, but it seems not suitable and not same size... TT)

How long you've been breast feeding for your daughter?

CέlCıΰѕ said...

真的很辛苦。。

加油~

除了加油还是加油 ><

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

加太多油,会油腻,然后会导致肥胖的... 别再为我加油咯..哈哈..

CH Voon said...

since your wife not working, i think very easy for breast feeding... my wife only maintain until 4 months only... because she works...

breast feed is the best best ... my another friend until 1 years plus

but dont too long because the nutrition not enough...after 6 to 7 months

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

oic. many not even breast feed for more than 2 months nowadays, kesian for those kid. You are better than them already. =)

I also hope that my kids got the 福气to have original mama milk till 1 year. ^_^

Ameline Ser 徐慧庭 said...

写得很好,文章很简约,但是都一一将为人母亲的那种辛苦表达出来了,棒咯!你好厉害诶!所以我喜欢看你的部落格。。继续。。

Gabriel said...

wow..really great post to let us understand how tough to be a parent. thank you very much!

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

夸奖了Ameline Ser 徐慧庭~ 还请你多多指教呢~

Gabriel~ Ya, we never going to understand till one day we take over their position. FYI, Mother is far more difficult in handling baby compare father. =)

cHrIstInA_YY said...

This is a really great post, and useful too!!! I read every single word of yours from top to bottom, can really feel what both of you (parents) are experiencing while raising a baby... it's never been an easy job to be a mother / father, but I'm sure u guys are really enjoying it ;)

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

Thanks Christina, your words really make me feel warm, feel appreciated. Thanks for commenting, wish more people to know this before their child yet coming out, to be well prepared, especially mentally.

When your turn? :p

Jesslyn said...

的确是很辛苦。。。但都是值得的!

妈妈们万岁!

夏娃公主 said...

我原本都没想到要生孩子~~
当他们要开始上学学其他东西时,足以让我害怕正辈子.omg~

elims Chuang 光宏 said...

Jesslyn,
妈妈万岁万岁万万岁~
希望妈妈也有多余时间一直睡睡睡~~

夏娃公主,
看看你的生活,多么快乐,多么爽,多么像个公主,你也有义务让更多人享受像你快乐般的生活嘛... 放心啦,船到桥头自然直的~ 到时候你快乐还来不及呢.. ^_^

et™ said...

世上只有妈妈好,有妈的孩子像个宝!

母爱真伟大,耶!

谢谢分享哦 ~ ♡

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