Leave It

Where did the year 2009 go? It was coming to an end soon & have you guys got you wanted to do in the first place. if not, why not? what is holding you guys back?

I wish to paraphrase some message i read about in MensHealth magazine. It was from my editor & I wish to share it with my fellow friends.

Its something about personal growth. how many of you thinks that 'we need to constantly remind ourselves of our mistake so that we wont repeat them?

Well, maybe you are right. but arent you tired? sometimes I am tired from carrying all the weight around. so may i suggest that coming this year end, make it a mission, once the clock struck midnight, say goodbye to all the accumulated thrash of the year and become free from the feeling of letting go.

Leave it, and start the new year with wide-eyed optismism and wonder - the kind of small kids have when they walk into the toys department in Jusco. Or Parkson.

Lets not tarnish out New Year with our hiccups and let-downs. Who knows. We may even be more successful in our future endeavors without constantly tripping over our past rubbish.

To start off on the right foot, let us all begins to appreciate what is in front of our eye, forgive the small stuff that been bugging your mind, forget that friends of your who accidently hurt your feelings. Start in a ever long journey of self improvement.

As for me, I think i going to do just right that. So, I wish you people all the best and may you realised your 2009 resolution in this 3 weeks in order to focus on some new task on hand - next year.

Good bye 2009 and Welcome 2010.

Happy Fathers Day

I would like dedicate this wonderful writing by Patrick Teoh

to all the Fathers in the world

First, we survived with mothers who had no maids.

They cooked /cleaned while taking care of us at the same time

They took aspirin, candies floss,fizzy drinks, shaved ice with syrups and diabetes were rare.

Salt added to Pepsi or Coke was remedy for fever.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets.

As children, we would ride with our parents on bicycles/ motorcycles for 2 or 3.

Richer ones in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a private taxi was a special treat.

We drank water from the tap and NOT from a bottle.

We would spend hours on the fields under bright sunlight flying our kites, without worrying about the UV ray which never seem to affect us.

We go to jungle to catch spiders without worries of Aedes mosquitoes.

With mere 5 pebbles (stones) would be a endless game.

With a ball (tennis ball best) we boys would ran like crazy for hours.

We catch guppy in drains / canals and when it rain we swim there.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually worry about being unhygenic.

We ate salty, very sweet & oily food, candies,bread and real butter and drank very sweet soft sweet coffee/ tea, ice kacang, but we weren't overweight because....... WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, till streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. AND WE DONT HAVE HANDPHONE S TO BUG US. And we were O.K. AND WE ARE SAFE.

We would spend hours repairing our old bicycles and wooden scooters out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes.

After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem .

We did no t have Playstations, X-boxes, Nintendo's, multiple channels on cable TV, DVD movies, no surround sound, no phones, no personal computers, no Internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and we still continued the stunts.

We never had birthdays parties till we are 21

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and just yelled for them!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!

Yet this generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever! The past 40 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL! And YOU are one of them! CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the government regulated our lives for our own good.

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

Happy Fathers Day

Even heroes have the right to dream

I cant stand to fly

Im not that naive

Im just out to find

The better part of me

Im more than a bird...

Im more than a plane

More than some pretty face beside a train

Its not easy to be me

Wish that I could cry

Fall upon my knees

Even heroes have the right to bleed

I may be disturbed...but wont you concede

Even heroes have the right to dream

Its not easy to be me

Im only a man

Looking for special things inside of me

Its not easy to be me...

James Carrington - Ache

Isn't it strange the way things can change

The life that you lead turned on its head

Suddenly someone means more than you felt before

Her house and its yard turns into home

I'm sorry but I meant to say, many things along the way

this ones for you

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache for you?

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache for you?

The time that it took writing words for my book

seems to have broken in half

The gate that i shut last time i got hurt

seems to have opened itself

Oh the world its spinning now its trying to catch me up

and tell me to appreciate the here and now

I'm sorry but i meant to say

many things along the way

this ones for you

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache for you?

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache

Have I told you I ache for you?

this song is specially dedicated to a person who cannot persue the thing he or she want at this moment, particularly loved one. he or she did sacrifice a lot and just kept quiet for love sacriiced no need to be brag or tell to a lot of people.

have i told u i ache for you in my opinion suggest the writer is 'pains' for the someone.

i pain for you

i need you badly

i need u by my side

keep on persuing your dream people

Celebrity Spotted

Biodata

Name: Nicholas Hew aka Protoss

Age: 20 (its true !)

Status: Attached (but still open to new opinion)

Vital stat: Quite long.... I mean reasonably tall.

Apr

Apr

May

May

June

June

June

Cheers

not so busy corner

but pics always paints a thousand words

Preparation for baby 迎接孩子地准备

I hardly go Suchi King without this voucher! 没这张固本我哪会去这里吃呢？

Which one is delicious huh? 也不知要吃些什么？

Too hungry, call for a Saba BBQ Set cause this is consider one of the biggest set of meal in Sushi King already. 叫了这份食物，因为看起来最大盘最多样最值得吃~ @@"

Free flow green tea 免费绿茶

That mean we need to pay extra RM 3.23. 扣除固本给予的折扣，还需补上RM 3.23.

I wish can get KFC Voucher next time. 希望下一次会拿到肯德基的固本！ ^_^

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Is time to 'work' after finish eating~ 吃饱了，是时候‘做工’了~

First time to buy this kind of thing... 第一次，有没‘红包’拿？

Insufficient 'gold', Get the cheapest set! 钱不够用，买最便宜的~

Wow, that is a lot! 哇，不知不觉买了那么多。。。

This is just small part of the things to be prepared~ hehe.. 这只是一小部分而已~ 哈哈！

With Love 因为爱，
elims Chuang 光宏

Deep inside

Something is changing....

I can feel it

Its coming soon....

给老婆的一封情书

回顾一封写给老婆的情书。。。

写给老婆的情书

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亲爱的老婆，

突然很想为你写信。等车修理好，不知要等多久，好想好想你哦~

我们结婚约2年了，明显的是，你为我做的事越来越多了。自己的工作，读书，家务。。。那么多，你都不曾叹气，言累！ 是时候想想你所为我做的的事了。

1. 洗衣，晒衣，整理衣物。可能你都不会觉得沉重，但对我来说可是大大减少了我心中的负担。

老婆笑得多么灿烂

2.设计房间。直到房间是你一手策划、设计的话，都会对你另眼相看，肯定不会比专业设计师来的逊色！

用心打造一个自己想要的家

3. 煮饭菜。以前曾想过要找个会煮饭做菜的老婆，但到了大学时期却发现几乎是不可能的事了。 哪知自己会是那么幸运的，找到一个竟然把煮饭做菜当着是一个很好玩的事。 虽然你的煮饭还有很大的发展空间，但我肯定会高兴的成为你第一个白老鼠！

体会煮饭做菜的乐趣

4. 整理、清理房间，家。每回进到房间都深感舒服，竟比客厅来的更有吸引力，好笑是吗？朋友都会发觉‘好像’我们的房间一直都很清洁。。。哈！

时时勤打扫，确保时时干净

5. 招待朋友。好像越来越多女孩都不会这样做了。在背后默默付出，虽不说出但都看得出你的用心、爱心、体贴。

6. 与家人快乐共处。 变成了一家人，这是难得的事情。父母对你的爱、信任都不是理所当然不劳而获的，而是你一天一天满满累积下来的成果。

有在一起的日子。。。

7. 拔毛毛。算是间中最享受的私人时间了。好多次都会在不惊不意下睡着了，你也把这用来骗我上床睡觉的方式。。。 哈哈！ 难以形容感受到的享受、舒服。

知道你辛苦都是为了我

8. 陪伴。 喜欢你跟在身边，去到哪里，就跟到哪里。有你一同陪着的路上，驾多远的路都不会累。出双入对，并非拍拖人的专利。。。 希望你能一直陪着我走下去直到离开人世。

喜欢牵你的手一起走

9. 满足欲望。 男人总是‘想要’，长远之下也演变成了一种‘需要’。你都明白、接纳并成全我的需求。不会让我感到寂寞、恐慌、失落。凡事干过就好了，果然有它的道理。

我需我要

10. 生小孩。简直难以想象我要有自己的小孩可以玩了咯。那么恐怖的事你都敢去‘尝试’，也真的对你全体投地了！希望我们多生几个小孩，共组足球队！哈哈~

身怀六甲了

Ops, 写到最后一行了，就此停笔。 爱你，那么深，那么轻松，那么有安全感。谢谢！

老公宏宏
笔于2月2009年

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有人说，爱一个人不需要理由。但我却坚决认为我们一定要（最迟）在一起时找出那些能够让继续相爱的理由。

爱很简单既很复杂：简单在于可以随时无中生有，复杂在于可以随时有中变无。
爱能在互相沟通、认识、认同、接纳下越来越稳定；
爱是要彼此互相满足、付出，进而达到心灵上的安定；
爱需要重心而发、有感而发；
爱很脆弱，所以别尝试挑战、挑拨、测验；
爱存有自私，那源自在乎、在意、担心、畏惧；
爱会因为彼此欣赏、称赞、鼓励而永垂不朽；
爱就像金钱，越有‘流动’就越有价值；
爱让我们能发掘、发觉爱的动力。

鼓励彼此，共勉之,
光宏

p/s: protoss/those who don't know Chinese word, please ask your friend to translate for u. Thanks. =)

Marriage Story - Part 6 (Final) : Marry in Office.

Few days after 7/6/08, my office organize a special ceremony for us. See.... this happen in CIDB office? Cant really imagine this could happen in our life.. lol.

Stupid look... but funny as well..

En. Suhaimi Arifin, MC of the day, Organize everything, gathering man power, and make this event so so good order~

En. Megat giving some flowers~~ haha~ (Ops..he is Senior General Manager, consider 3rd man in CIDB already now...@_@")

En. Rohaizi, my lovely and funny boss~ haha~~ ^_^

Pn. Ida, another department head giving wishes~

Ir. Sia Han See, the Man who bring me into CIDB, the man, who always helps me front and behind, openly and quietly.

My just kind "ex-boss", En. Mohd Noor~

Wan Nordin, Chief Operating Officer of Academi Binaan Malaysia giving wishes.

Dear tina, newbie in CIDB just like me.. She said giving food for chickens~~ @_@"

Cutting the pulut merah~

Showing Appreciation to everyone who help making this event so special, unique, successful and meaningful for us.

Doa recitation~ Wish everyone all the best~~ ^_^

Thanks everyone for attending... Really feel so touched.. T_T..

Lol.. so many types of expression.. Tension, happy, smiling, berangan-angan, looking other place...so funny this combination...

Ops..typical gift by CIDB, so big and so heavy~~ anyone want? contact me, negotiate the price~~ hahahah~~

Thanks for stay tune for my funny and lovely story~~ Your support is indeed giving more energy to push forward.

Sincerely wish that you all can get a right person at the right timing~

All the best~

With Love,
elims Chuang